Humans are involved in countless relationships; from the casual interaction at a supermarket checkout counter to intimate ones with people closest to us. These are all part of our daily lives, but if you are fortunate you’ll have another special relationship – the one with Fluffy, Rufus, Peaches, or whatever your dog’s name is.
It’s a relationship that’s hard to describe, you just know you and your dog understand each other, enjoy each others’ company. Much has been written about the relationship between humans and dog their four legged companions. Fact is, a well established relationship between and dogs and their owners fulfill some basic needs of both parties.
A dog’s needs are simple; food and decent housing to take care of its physical needs. When you add exercise, discipline and affection to the mix, the chances are good that you’ll have a really happy pooch. We know dogs are pack animals, and need to belong, even if it’s to a single person. The owner, and other family member and pets, provide an environment where it has a sense of belonging, of security. When it feels accepted, knows where the boundaries of acceptable behavior are, it has the freedom to run, play, or just cuddle up; certain of its owners’ affection, care and guidance.
In turn, the dog will protect the owner, even guard the owner with its life if the occasion should arise. Part of the need a dog fulfills for the owner is that of a living creature to whom you’re the centre of its world. Let’s face it, when it feels like the rest of the world is against you, your dog still thinks you’re that special, lovely individual. , no matter your looks or mood.
Dogs don’t judge us, their trust and devotion is absolute, even when some people mistreat them. We often expect too much from human relationships, and come away disappointed. But a dog have the unlimited and unconditional love that an animal is capable of.
Much of the connection between humans and dogs takes place on a subconscious level and body language is a major part of communication. They can sense whether someone likes, is afraid or dislikes them. Their senses, particularly their sense of smell and hearing are so well developed that they can warn us of and assist us in dangerous situations..
We teach and train our dogs to help them become happy, well-adjusted pack animals that can function in society. They give back loyalty, affection and much more. When you next play with our dog, take it for a walk, or cuddle up with it, take a moment to observe it. See the way the dog just loses itself in the joy of the moment, satisfied with being where it is, what life is giving it at that instance. Isn’t there a lesson too be learnt in that? To sometimes just to let go, be quiet, live in the moment – and be thankful for the blessing of having a dog.